Hello all,
I decided to join this group after I heard about it from the fiancee. She has been 3 years clean and unfortunately, I was not there for all of it. Currently, I am seeing the aftermath of her addiction. She lost her child because of her addiction and she almost lost it all because of it. I was just the guy that decided to help her out after she almost lost it all. I am currently fighting for her to regain everything she has. I am trying to see that she is definitely worth more than she thinks she has and has so many people that love her, including me. I am trying to get her to finish her Bachelor by getting her enrolled into school to finish her Associates and then working on the DARC program so she can be a counselor and help others like herself.
Hi don't know much since I am new to this as well. But she has to work through her guilt and shame on her own. We never want to see our love ones suffer so we try to take control and protect them from that pain. According to the steps we are actually hendering their recovery. I am pregnant and my boyfriend has been on a crack binge for three months now. Going through this pregnancy alone was never something I intended. I have remind myself everyday that me trying to force him , beg him or trick him into stopping will not work. Might I add easier said then done. I try to remind myself of step one as much as possible. One thing I never realized with the steps was how damaged I was from dealing with someone with an addiction. It amazing how demons can transfer over to u… I wish u the best and hope this helps
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