Hello Everyone I am new to nar-anon anyways heres my story it is been the hardest two years of my life I met my on off fiancé two years ago and it was love at first sight I didn't find out till several months in that he had a drug problem and relapsed but i stayed it was hard because six months in I got pregnant and miscarried his child and we were living together. Last year he almost died of a sucide attempt overdose it was the most painful thing. My family and friends hate him with an undying passion. He's addicted to heroin and meth no needles thank god and he finally broke probation and went back to jail for a year and a half however for the first time in his life he joined rehab on his own every other time has been court ordered i tad him we could be just friends while he's in jail and i will not make it work when he's out unless he stays sober. i feel so alone in this and could use someone to talk to. thank you very much
My husband and have been through some craziness… stated dating, got married, got pregnant, had twins, bought a house… all this in 3 years! I knew he had used meth in his past & I was always very clear how I felt about it, I would leave. Take the kids & be gone so fast his head would spin! Around the time we were buying the house (in may) he started using again. I, of course had no clue. Friends tries telling me, his actions are saying hes using. I defended him, told everyone he would never do that to us! About a month I got up one morning & his phone was sitting on the couch, I went through it & found my worst fear. The twins & I left. He called me every ugly name in the book! To me I didn't love him, I'm abandoning him when he needs me the most. We stayed with family for 2 weeks, he started going to meetings, is doing group therapy once a week. I don't think he is using but since we've been back home he's only been to 2 meetings & 1 group session, I'm so scared it's just a matter of time till he uses again. There are no nar-anon meeting close to me so I have been doing tons of reading and do my best to follow the suggestions but it is hard! I just wanted you to know you are not alone! Stay strong!
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