Nar-Anon Chat™

Hey i joined here a long time ago as my partner was in active addiction and I needed someone to talk/vent to that knew what I was going through, i didn’t stay I didn’t put in the work, there were lots of ups and downs but he got it together and with that had 6 years clean and sober, well needless to say I’m back on here as quite recently he has relapsed and has continued to use since, it’s been a massive blow I’m so shocked and sad, ive never done any work on myself I have always been so consumed with his addiction when he was active and currently, how quickly you slip back into that old behavior, watching there every move etc… I need guidance I need people that understand and I need to put in the work to get me through this