Hello to all,
I am brand new to this, so please excuse my lack of knowledge. I am looking for support and any help I can get really with my current situation.
To recap: I have just learnt that my partner is using what I believe to be crack-cocaine. I had my suspicions in the past but never had solid proof of drug abuse, only alcohol abuse. He recognized his alcohol abuse and went to a healing centre two months ago to help deal with some of the issues surrounding his need to abuse substances. He came back a different man, warm and loving, but I started to see personality changes in the past few weeks. With a small amount of digging, I found drug tools and evidence of drug purchases… so I am at a loss.
I chose a softer route this time when confronting him, by asking if he needed help.. and he said yes.. and this is where we are. I am not sure if I am going about any of this the right way.
I am in my mid thirties, no children, never married… I have never done drugs in my life. Sadly, I missed the signs that were blatantly there in the past year in relation to this drug use. I have been lied to, deceived, cheated on, and so much more… But I am still here, trying to support this man… So any advice would be greatly appreciated here.
Thanks so much.
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