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July 12, 2018 - 2:55 pm

Hello I am Amanda I am a new. I have been with my husband all together for 10 yrs and he's an addict. I've sent him to rehab two times and he is still not sober. He's always lying so I never know what to believe. I have 3 sons 2 are 9 years old and my oldest is 14 yrs old. I'm in the process of moving out and I am having a hard time telling him and I'm also having a hard time with moving out. I know it's the right decision for me and my children I'm just being very indecisive and I don't know why. I started therapy and I am going to a meeting on Monday. I just wanted to meet some new people to get the support I need.

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July 13, 2018 - 8:19 am

Hi Amanda. I’m new as well. I wish I had some advice, but I’m in a similar situation.

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July 18, 2018 - 5:35 am

Hi Amanda.
New here too but story sounds familiar. H currently on his fourth go at rehab. 2 kids, 3 and 4yrs. Been married for 9 years, together for 14, 4-6 of those with an active addict. We separated for nearly 2 year and reunited on the promise of sobriety this time… not even sure how long it lasted and how long was a lie. I started therapy myself a while ago, but am new to this. Not too sure what I can offer other than the knowledge you are not the only one going through this and I understand your indecisiveness. I feel like since I found out I have only lived my life reactively to his…

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July 19, 2018 - 8:13 pm

I'm new tonight. My son is active in his addiction and his fiance just died of an overdose. Their kids are with foster parents and my son can't pull himself together to stop using. My heart is broken. I tried to help but when I saw he wasn't helping himself I had to detach with love and drive 1200 miles back to my home. I don't feel like talking to anyone and am beginning to hate being around other people who are happy when I'm not. I will go on but it is a constant heartache in my life.

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