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Hi, I have discovered recently that my sister is using heroin. She has had struggles previous with alcohol and weed which she has got over but since getting a new boyfriend, she has been using this I found evidence at my dads 70th birthday party. My 2 kids were at this too. I was very shocked as had no idea before this. I was angry for her exposing my kids to something and putting them at risk. But now it seems to be getting worse she wont admit that shes using and is getting methodone from the pharmacy but I don’t think she is taking this. I have yet to tell my parents about this and they will be very hurt also. My dad is not well and it means now that the pressure is put on me to care for him more and I have a full time job and two kids to look after and a mortgage. I am unsure what to do because until she says she needs help or is using is there anything I can do? What approach should I take? Thanks I do not want it to escalate any further.
The fact that your sister has had issues with alcohol and weed before and has been able to stop (I am assuming) using both is promising. It shows that she knows what needs to be done in order to get on the path to recovery. If she is currently in denial about her use of heroin, it is going to be difficult for her until she is honest with you and herself about the situation. I encourage you to attend some Nar-anon meetings, either in person or in our chat room, as you will learn skills to help you deal with your sister’s addiction and you will develop a support system for yourself. Our meetings are Mon and Thurs at 9:00 EST and Saturdays at 8:30. You will find a great group of supportive people who all understand how you are feeling. Hope to see you there one of these nights.
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