I need some hope right now! My husband is now decided that he needs high powered CBD gummies that get him far more high than pills. I cannot keep doiing this. My desire to have peace in my life and not having to be around someine whose mind is altered is stronger than my willingness to keep fighting this. I feel as I am the only one puttiing forth effort into his sobriety. I am sick and tired of the lies he tells and the embarrassment he causes me in public. I do not know what I am doing wrong but nothing works! He loves the high more than he loves his family and I am crushed yet again.
Hello Vickie, Welcome to the Nar Anon Chat boards. I am sorry to hear about your situation. All of the members in this group can relate to what you are going through. This program will teach you how to take care of yourself first. Everyone who comes to this program thinks they will learn how to cure and change the addicts behavior. We soon learn that is not possible and we must take care of ourselves before we can help our addicted loved one. One of the first principles you will learn and hopefully apply are what we call the 3C’s. I didn’t Cause it, I can’t Control it, and I can’t Cure it. I encourage you to attend one of our meetings where you will be very welcomed and make new friends who can relate to your issues. The meetings are on Monday and Thursday evenings at 9:00 pm EST, and on Saturdays at 8:30 pm. Hope to see you there.
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