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Hello, I’m Kaye , married to my hubby for almost 10 years now with only 4 peaceful and happy years. I’ve been in and out of these rooms over the years. Each time my hubby relapses (which has been happening more frequently now than ever before), is when I remember Nar Anon and to open my SESH book. I admit and acknowledge that I am powerless over him, that I need to let go of my desire to save him and keep himself from hitting rock bottom (death), and to just surrender him to my Higher Power. Easier said than done as usual but I am willing to take this step right now. Thank you for listening.
Hello, I my name is also Kay, Ive been dealing with my fiance for two years now. Learning midway through our relationship he was an addict. He cheated on me all the time then finally went to rehab and got better (so i thought) he has relapsed twice this year. Last time was tuesday night. He disappeared for a full 25 hours. I found out he also contacted that same girl he cheated on me with while he was ignoring my calls. Im so hurt. I want to be here for him but it’s literally killing me. I feel like I have no one to turn to. Clearly he has a bond with this on again off again ex that I will never have. Sometimes i just wish i never met him or that I could just disappear. I work two jobs to keep my bills paid and I am so stressed out. It is definitely lonely in this battle. Ive been up crying for two hours now and I wish there was someone up to talk to. Thank you for listening.
Ladies, I am glad you found us. This is a great group of people here. We all have dealt with addicted loved ones and understand where you are coming from. Please check out our meetings in the chat room. 9:00 pm on Monday and Thursday, 8:30 pm on Saturday Eastern time. Cya soon. Sorry for the late response
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I’m new here. Last night, I attended my first meeting and it was in person. It was a small group, but a wonderful group. Hearing the stories was so helpful. One of the ladies suggested 90 meetings in 90 days. I am going to try my best. I’m married to someone who is an addict and I’m the daughter of alcoholics. I am unhappy and last night the first step hit me so hard. I am powerless of my addict husband. I don’t want to track his movements. I don’t want to go through his phone. I don’t want to count his medication. I just want peace.
Lost82. I enjoy my weekly face to face meeting with my group too. I found I needed more than one meeting a week and found this group. There are 3 meetings a week her in the chat room. 9:00 pm eastern time on Monday and Thursday and 8:30 pm on Saturday. I enjoy this group as much as my face to face. Please feel free to attend our meetings and see if it’s for you.
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