Hi. My husband is an addict and I donât know what to do anymore.
Back story I guess, Iâm from Another country and recently moved to the US to be with my long term partner who has been in recovery. We married last December and just got notification that my immihration interview is next month. I canât work. I have no way to support myself and am completely reliant on him. And he relapsed not long after we married.
I have done everyThing I knew to do. I tried weaning him off H, found him a doctor to prescribe sub. Have made the transfer over to sub multiple times on the last few months but something always happens. His dealer made threats demanding that we owed money and my husband was stupid and went. The guy got in his car with a shot already prepared and forced him to take it. I know sounds like a lie, but actually the truth. I thought we had transitioned back to sub again 10 days ago, but all my instincts were telling me something was wrong. I felt like I was losing my mind. So I checked his wallet and found a bunch of h. I shoved it in his face and he was still saying he didnât know what it was.
I am devastated. I feel so alone. I have no one in this country apart from my addict. We went into debt that is late glen in my name to pay for the treatment, and or car is in the shop and we have. I transport at all. He paid someone to deliver to his work and tonight they turned up demanding more money.
It feels like nothing will ever get better. We are broke with bills to pay and now bad people know where my husband works. All
I feel so so alone. I think about leaving all the time, but I have no where to go and I think if I did my husband would truly give up and I donât think he would be alive anymore. I canât bear anymore. I really canât. I love him so much and just want him to be okay again.
I am sorry 🙁 The one thing that I learned from being in similar shoes to yours, is that his actions are what are important. The words that come out of his mouth are meaningless. I had to refuse my addict $ in any way shape or form. I squirreled money away for my exit plan. He is still actively using, but I have figured a way to provide for myself. I hope you find a way too.
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