Nar-Anon Chat™

I have a 31 year old son who is an addict. My husband refuses to stop enabling him .he works for my husband,lives at home,works the hours he wants and my husband always pays him out of trouble.I pay all the bills so I am enabling him too. It is always an argument between my husband and me if I try to establish any boundaries. Even has my son lie to me when my husband gives my son money. This has been going on for 10 years. My other adult children are fed up as they say we have created the problem by always paying him out of trouble and are ready to walk away. I see no recourse but divorce.