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How can I ignore signs when it affects everything
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January 30, 2018 - 1:36 pm

My husband is an addict and has been good for over a year but now stories are changing again and things aren’t adding up … my house is like a war zone… I know I cannot control it.. and I know he will use if he really wants too regardless of what I do or say.. but he’s stealing from me again.. I’ve hid my money for a while now and I slipped up yesterday and boom money gone. He is of course denying it .. and it hurts because it’s just us and my 8 year who doesn’t steal my money. It hurts me that it’s coming back to me as if I lost it. He never said that or put blame on me but “ it wasn’t him I don’t know where it is” I have been accusing him of lieing to me all week. There’s no question in my eyes he took the money none. I have zero trust with him anymore. It started two weeks ago when I found him on the floor of our bathroom because he shot up his subox meds. It’s been one thing after another since. So I don’t know how to ignore this when it’s now come back to stealing money from my wallet which then effects my whole household. I’m scared… and feel as if the world is crashing down around me. I just want this to stop and want him ok. All I do is cry and it’s starting to effect my health and life daily. How do I get through this.

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January 30, 2018 - 1:45 pm

I forgot to add that he went to his doctor and took a test and he passed this was yesterday . So I feel like ppl are looking at me like I’m crazy but there are too many things not adding up. I gotten to the point where I’m thinking maybe he managed to fake a medical paper from his doctor.. I’m a mess

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