Nar-Anon Chat™

Hi, my name is Laurieann and I am new here. I am the mother of an addict, she is my 32-year-old daughter. My story is long, my AD has chronic pain due to illness, she was put on fentanyl just over 10 years ago and Percocet. For the last several years she was stable, never abused her medication. Then she was abducted for her medications and dragged behind a moving car down a gravel country road and left for dead. She has lost her license, just got it back after 5 years. Doc took her off opiates and she went on suboxone, that was not working for her pain, so she went on methadone. Still she has pain, so she started on medical marijuana. Very expensive and she is so addicted to it. She is with an abusive boyfriend who is also an addict. Evicted from their apt. lost her car and is on disability now. Living with me temporarily until she goes to rehab. Boyfriend has been staying also. They fight all the time. My daughter is a compulsive liar, she has stolen thousands of dollars from me and I have had my jewelry and electronics pawned many times over. Its groundhog day over and over, insanity is my normal and reality. I want off this crazy train now before I end of having a stroke or heart attack. I have had to take a leave from my job because she would call me many times a day, my peers were getting upset with it, she would show up at my work needing money and making it so difficult for me, I was afraid I would lose my job. I even borrowed money from people at work because she would have one crisis after another, running out of gas, etc…being stranded. My family is fed up and most of them do not come over anymore because of her irrational, inappropriate and over the top hysterical behaviors. She does not respect any of my boundaries, takes my car whenever she wants expects money all the time, when I cant comply she carries on until I borrow it. I have gotten into debt to the point of bankruptsy. I feel emotionally, physically as well as mentally bankrupt.