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June 29, 2017 - 8:31 pm

My husband just entered a rehab program that requires him to work and pay his way. Today he called me from his new bosses phone and told me that he will be calling when he wants (supposed to have no contact for 30 days) and that his boss is going to bring him home to get his tools. He is breaking the rules and I don't want any part of it. Im afraid he will just find a way around all the rules and we will end up right where we started. What do I do? Please help! Any advice???

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July 1, 2017 - 11:27 am

Welcome to the forum! Rather than give advice, I would simply like to ask you a few questions, not for you to answer here necessarily but rather to think about and answer for yourself. What, actually and honestly, can you do? What or who are the things/people that you have control over? How does "having no part of it" translate into an action? What would you do if your fear that things end up right where you started comes true? I hope this is helpful for you and would be happy to continue a conversation with you!

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July 29, 2017 - 10:56 am

[b][/b]My kids dad has entered rehab (supposed to be 90 days, he's only doing 30) but he wants me to be part of his therapy sessions. And i just… I don't want to. I also don't want to be detrimental to his recovery but I have no desire to participate. Does that make me a bad person?

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