Hi everyone, looking for advice. My husband has had a drug problem for a long time and over the past year the level of hurt has been unimaginable. But finally he is helping himself and clean and sober seems like it might actually happen. But I have spent so much of my time for years taking care of him and our daughters that I am having trouble dealing with this stage. I hurt that I should not push responsibilities on him just yet but I need some time to deal with me and process for the past few years. I have even considered a temporary seperation to get some alone time. There are very little resources for the families of addicts and much of the time we just need to process on our own. My husband sees this as being unsupportive of his recovery and says that it is actually making things harder on him. This has lead to a lot of guilt. Does anyone have advice on how to move forward. Has anyone been down this road. For context my husband had an affair for three months with another drug addict for a place to stay and drugs. Thatâs what I need time to process.
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