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Well, I knew it was going to happen and today it did. When my husband talked to me about coming home from detox over 2 weeks ago, I told him no phone and no going anywhere alone since I can't trust him. He agreed. Then today blew up and demanded access to a car if he was going to stay in this house. I told him to go elsewhere if he didn't like the rules. I did not give in and after a lot of hurtful things were said to me, he realized I was right. I think that is progress. I believe he is going through what is called post acute withdrawal and that's causing his emotions and moods to be all over the place. Has anyone else experienced this? What else can I expect so I can be prepared? Thanks for reading.
Yes, but detox is designed to manage withdrawal. Not giving in is excellent progress. My ex still pushes, threatens me ect, i do not give in EVER. Plz stand by your convictions and keep your strength. No matter what. You dont deserve hurtful things saidcto you bc your addict doesnt know how to properly channel his anger appropriately. Be ready for many more threats and fights. Be ready to standxup for yourself, bc even after 120 days clean, my ex out ofcmy home, everything is still blamed on me, and horrible things said to me and about me. The truth is, is that I dont back down. My boundaries and limitations in regards to nyself and my children's recoveries come first, and i will never be manipulated or abused again. Stay strong and remember your not alone. I hope he finds strength and courage to channel his emotions properly, and i hope you find the courage to stand by your boundaries. You have no reason to trust him, but if he acts crazy, demands the phone or car let him go. If he uses again, thats on HIM not you. Remeber step 1, we are powerless over our addict. God bless. Write back if youd like to talk more. Always here for you. Hugs
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